| Location | Hudson Falls/new York |
| Age | 31 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 04/06/1939 |
| Date of Death | 11/01/1971 |
| Visitors | 1,051 since 07/09/2008 |
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Death by Semi Truck Accident
My strength, my courage, my protector, my idol, my knowledge, my abandonment. My Daddy, May he rest in peace and be my angel today and always forever more. Rest in Peace Daddy, We love you and miss you.
I was only 8 when you went away. I knew you were dead, without a word from anyone. The minute, I saw your family walking down the stairs of my girl scout meeting. I started to cry already knowing the news before being told.I cried that day and continue to cry for you still. I missed my fathers love at a time I when I needed it the mos, as I was growing into a young woman. I believe you would be proud of what I have done and continue to do in my years here on earth. I also think I might have disappointed you a time or two or three. I'am sorry daddy if I ever have, It wasn't meant to be, just me rebellin for your death. You said you "would be back for me." Those were the last words I heard you say, as you took me to air my bike tire. I wanted to go with you that day and I saw your heart break when you said "not now honey, I'll be back for you soon." I believed you would have, and I was planning on spending my childhood with you, in New York. You never came back for me. You left me here, all alone, to face the years of trouble and agony without my fathers love, advice and guidance. I am thankful for our eight years together. You did teach me alot about myself and I am the woman I am today because of those first eight years with you. Yet, I believe you are in a better place. Daddy now when I really need you the most in my entire life, I have been abandoned by another, he also said "I'll be back in 1 hour." He never came back instead he shot himself and now I must be even stronger than before to face this harsh world once more all alone.
Daddy I know you are safe in heaven and I know you would have came back if not for your accident. I really hate life at times it seems so hard and the more I try to do the right thing and be the right person the harder it seems to get. I am totally my daddys girl, I realize that. I also know also that you and Steve are together in heaven and and I know you like him because I loved him with all my heart and daddy we were going to be married.
I just miss you each and every day. Growing up without a father is one of the hardest I have had to face. Growing up without your soul mate is just as hard, if not harder for me now. I know I'll be okay and I'll get through it and thats all because of your strength as a father guiding me in my first eight years. I am depending on your angels now to get me stronger and keep me going. Until one day daddy I am strong enough to do it by myself once more. I love you and I miss you sadly each and every day. Please Rest In Peace Daddy, knowing that I always believed in you and always will. You have always been the most special person in my life and I am who I am today because of the short time we had together on earth before God called you home because he needed you more in heaven than I needed you here on earth. Daddy know that the other kids need you too more than I do because in our own ways we have each been hurting a long time. Keep us all safe and away from any harm. Even mom dad needs your loving angels to protect her from her hurts. In Loving memory Your daughter Robin
10,000 Angels- Lynn Cooper
(Verse 1)
I know you're hurting,
I can see it in your eyes.
There's nothing I can say or do
to ease your heart or mind,
But there's someone you can talk to,
He'll come and ease your pain.
He knows your every thought and prayer,
Just call upon His name.
(Chorus)
May He send ten thousand angels strong
To comfort you and guide you through this storm.
May He send ten thousand angels strong
To strengthen you, and guide you through this storm.
(Verse 2)
He understands the broken heart,
The suffering of the soul,
And in this crazy stormy night,
Yes, God is in control.
So let Him take this cross for you.
Your burdens He'll make light,
And to the top of Calvary's hill
Your fears be released tonight.
(Repeat Chorus)
May He send ten thousand angels strong
To comfort you and guide you through this storm.
May He send ten thousand angels strong
To strengthen you, and guide you through this storm.
To My Dad
Dear Dad,This is to say thank you for all that you have done for me while you were here,and to say thank you for riding with me while I was driving truck over the road.I know you were right there with me,keeping me safe as I travelled down the highways and byways.I felt your hands on the wheel and on the shifter as I went from state to state.
I thank God for the times that I was able to stop in New York and see your grave and sit and talk with you.It helped fill an empty place in my heart,and I know that you are always looking down obn us and helping us as much as you can.
You would be proud of the things your children have accomplished and the things we are still doing to make it in this life.
Though things are tough,we are never going to give up,as you taught us that we are strong enough to overcome anything if we only put our minds to it.
One day dad,I will own my own truck and it will be dedicated n your memory.
We love you and miss you very much.
DO YOU FEEL THE NEED TO TALK XXX
Do you ever sit in an empty room
do you appreciate an open bloom
do you smell it's sweet perfume
Do you feel the need to 'talk out loud'
but theres no one there to hear
do you hear a voice call out your name
so close up to your ear
Have you ever felt a sudden chill pas by
and the hair on your neck stands up
have you gone to pour a cup of tea
but someone's moved your cup
Do you believe in angels
do they make you smile
have you felt one on each shoulder
as you walk that long wiery mile
Do you know that all these things
are messages to you
do you believe that they exist
i'll tell you.....YES THEY DO
with love theresa xxx
In Loving Memory of Roger Virgil Ludeke
Time heals everything, so people say.
But we've been so sad since you went away daddy.
Without any warning, he took you by the hand and lead you across to the promised land.
Though God took you away to Heaven above, we think of you every day and night.
For we know God takes care of you and someday we will meet you on the other side.
Where there will be no sorrow cause peace and love abide.
You are sadly missed by your son Roger and your daughters, Robin, Renita, Rebecca and Rita. Daddy you are also missed by Beverly, Ronica, Travis, Ryne, Hailey, Byron, Saryna, Hope, Roger, Dustin, Lane, Tasha, Tiana, Amber, Precious, Kayla, Blaze, also by Richard, Dave, also by Jeramiah, Aletta and each and every Great Grandchild, I believe you now have 9.
Footprints In The Sand x
One night a man had a dream. He dreamed
he was walking along the beach with the LORD.
Across the sky flashed scenes from his life.
For each scene he noticed two sets of
footprints in the sand: one belonging
to him, and the other to the LORD.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him,
he looked back at the footprints in the sand.
He noticed that many times along the path of
his life there was only one set of footprints.
He also noticed that it happened at the very
lowest and saddest times in his life.
This really bothered him and he
questioned the LORD about it:
"LORD, you said that once I decided to follow
you, you'd walk with me all the way.
But I have noticed that during the most
troublesome times in my life,
there is only one set of footprints.
I don't understand why when
I needed you most you would leave me."
The LORD replied:
"My child, my precious child,
I love you and I would never leave you.
During your times of trial and suffering,
when you see only one set of footprints,
it was then that I carried you."
with lots of love god bless love theresa xxx
Daddy,
Hailey and Adam got married on Dec 19th. I couldn't be there, she didn't tell me right away. I know what it was like for you living so far away from us. I feel the same way that you did. It hurts alot when you want to be near family and realize thats not your home. I am right where I am suppose to be otherwise God would have me back there and he doesn't. I might have a tough time here but daddy I do really love it here. The area, the opportunities, the knowledges. After all theses years I still cry for you. I don't understand why I continue to cry. What am I trying to do here?
"Give Me Peace" By Lea Dyer Snow
"Give Me Peace" By Lea Dyer Snow
Lord, in this hour I need you, more than words could ever tell.
I feel as if I'm stranded on shores between heaven and hell...
I know you haven't left me, yet my heart feels void of hope.
I feel as if I'm hanging on an old and thread worn rope...
I feel as if my hearts been torn from the breast from which it came.
And sunshine will no longer fill my life, only clouds of darkness and rain...
I know this will pass,
and you will be there to give me comfort and strength and hope.
But until then I can't help the feeling that I'm down to that last thread of rope...
If it breaks, you'll be there to catch me, and raise me back to my feet...
But for now my world is in turmoil, and the essence of life is not sweet...
Give me power to overcome my oppression, and let sunshine back on my face.
Let your spirit overwhelm my cold dark heart,
and let me bask in your warmth giving grace...
Give rest to my tempest of yearning, and faith to my sore lacking soul.
Let me again laugh with my family. Rescue me from this pit in Sheol.
With praise I do worship your blessings, with humility, I ask my release.
From this den of despair I ask mercy...show favour on me...give me peace.
love theresa xxx
Hugs From Heaven
by Charlotte Anselmo
When you feel a gentle breeze
Caress you when you sigh
It's a hug sent from Heaven
From a loved one way up high.
If a soft and tender raindrop
Lands upon your nose
They've added a small kiss
As fragile as a rose.
If a song you hear fills you
With a feeling of sweet love
It's a hug sent from Heaven
From someone special up above.
If you awaken in the morning
To a bluebird's chirping song
It's music sent from Heaven
To cheer you all day long.
If tiny little snowflakes
Land upon your face
It's a hug sent from Heaven
Trimmed with Angel lace.
So keep the joy in your heart
If you're lonely my dear friend
Hugs that are sent from Heaven
A broken heart will mend.
with love theresa xxx
A Bend In The Road
♥ღ♥ When we feel we have nothing left to give
and we are sure that the song has ended,
When our day seems over and the shadows fall
and the darkness of night has descended,
Where can we go to find the strength
to valiantly keep on trying?
Where can we find the hand that will dry
the tears that the heart is crying?
There's but one place to go and that is to God,
and dropping all pretense and pride,
We can pour out our problems without restraint
and gain strength with Him at our side.
And together we stand at life's crossroads
and view what we think is the end.
But God has a much bigger vision,
and He tells us it's only a bend,
For the road goes on and is smoother,
and the pause in the song is a rest,
And the part that's unsung and unfinished
is the sweetest and richest and best.
So rest and relax and grow stronger
let go and let God share your load.
Your work is not finished or ended
you've just come to a bend in the road ♥ღ♥
with lots of love theresa xxx
Wow Daddy,
Daddy I am so glad Nila is giving you pictures. I love the pictures she adds to your site. I alaways smile. I wish I had more opportunity to get on your site, but, I don't so Nila Thank You for doing what I can not. I appreciate it more than you will ever know.
my rock
Sometimes I catch myself my rock my rock Sometimes I catch myself
Thinking, "When I phone,
I can talk of this or that!"
Then remember, I'm alone
you was always there
To answer my calls -
To listen to my "small talk"
Or when I climbed the walls.
At times, I didn't feel like talking
And somehow, you understood -
you Didn't say you wished I'd call
Or make me feel like I should.
Now, I wish I would have
More times, to show I cared -
To say, just how important
Were, all those times we shared.
I could have shown my love
So much more than I did -
I never, did it enough
Even when I was a kid.
Now it's too late to do or say
All those things I wish I had -
No way to ease the pain inside
When my heart is sad.
you was my "anchor" to this life -
The "rock", that I clung to -
The place, where I could turn
When, nowhere else would do.
Now, the ravages of time
Have worn my "rock" away -
And all I have to cling to
Are memories of yesterday.
with love theresa xxx
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